Frustration

My frustration level is high, and try as I might, it isn't getting lower. The primary problem is my -- wheat do I call him -- my ex -- the boys dad -- my husband -- whatever he is, he is really on my nerves. I make all of the appointments for the boys; I make sure their needs are met; I am here every day for them -- not their dad. It is by his choice that he isn't here.

But -- and there is always the but, isn't there? BUT -- he still tries to control. Have you done this; do something that way; blah, blah, blah. Unless there is a step up with participation -- and child support -- I just don't think there is a right to say one way or the other. SHUT UP!